For the average American parent, raising a child comes with a price tag of at least $12,980 every year. By the age of 17, that’s well over $230,000—and that’s before college costs come into play. High-earning families spent even more—over $370,000 according to the research. 1
Of course, child-rearing costs vary from family to family, and it’s far more expensive to raise kids in some high-cost-of-living states, like Oregon and New York.2
Plus, kids don’t magically stop costing you money once they turn 18. College, rent, insurance, and helping out adult children can all add up.
Whether it's school programs, babysitters, or full-time care, parents can spend a shocking amount of money on childcare. However, the benefits of career stability to parents and the socialization and stimulation children can receive in high-quality care, can make the expense a worthwhile choice for many.
Parents have to shell out for out-of-pocket doctor and dentist visits as well as health insurance premiums, prescriptions, and other medical expenses. While adults may spend more on their own health care expenses (especially as they age), health care costs for the under-18 crowd had the highest rate of inflation, meaning parents may end up spending even more in the years to come.4
Housing is the single biggest cost of raising children. Whether it's buying a bigger house, or finding a good school district, about $1 in every $3 spent on kids goes toward keeping a roof over their heads.
Picky eaters or not, food costs add up. It's also not uncommon for parents to shell out more for organic or all-natural foods. Good news, though: splurging on healthy food may actually save money later when it comes to health care costs.5
Though the individual cost of college varies, tuition costs double about every decade.6 Since college graduates can end up earning about 56% more than non-college graduates, these higher education costs can be well worth it.7
"The experience of raising children can create lifelong memories you can never put a price tag on."
Whether you’re raising a young child, sending your kid off to college, or watching your kids raise the next generation, kids cost a lot in America. There’s no getting around that.
And money is just one way you’re spending on your kids. In fact, research shows that parents aren’t just spending more money on children these days—they’re also spending more time and energy on their kids than ever before.8
Because parents and grandparents want to give the kids in their family the best possible life.
Often, that means doing more than just housing, feeding, and educating kids. It can mean taking them to ball games and concerts, paying for special lessons, throwing memorable birthday parties, taking vacations, and more. These activities and experiences you enjoy with your children can create lifelong memories you can never put a price tag on.
Of course, all of that does come with some up-front costs. But I think most parents would agree that the costs are worth it.
If you’re thinking about how to balance the costs of kids with your personal needs and future, call my office. I’ve helped lots of parents and grandparents figure out ways to give their kids a great start while still saving for the future, and I’d be honored to help you, too.
Michael Whitman, MBA, CFP® Millennium Planning Group
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